I’m a little shocked that some of you believe I’m actually expecting to get a pat on the back for what I’ve written on this subject. I’ve been pretty honest about my flaws in the dozen or so odd pieces I’ve written on this subject.

Alas, thanks for reading anyway (and commenting). You might want to read to the end of this piece where I relate how I figured out what I was doing was wrong.

I write about relationships, women’s issues, and my highly imperfect life. Learn more about me: my.bio/theformerlymrs Support: ko-fi.com/ellesilver

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