I’m glad that you’re discussing shame and male sexuality, Thomas P Seager, PhD. This is a subject that I definitely want to explore more, but as you note, I do focus on my own experience, since I am a woman, and that’s all I have to go on.

But I do look forward to exposing the issues that men also deal with in our shame-filled society when it comes to sex. We all deal with shame. That’s a fact.

I write about relationships, women’s issues, and my highly imperfect life. Learn more about me: my.bio/theformerlymrs Support: ko-fi.com/ellesilver

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