Listen, to be a totally evolved human being, if looking at this from the male perspective, I suppose if I’m a guy offering to take a lady out to dinner and then pleasure her afterward, then I wouldn’t want to think she was blending the evening with another date. But to be understood, this was our first text volley and to suppose that after an initial half-hour or so of texting that I might not also be engaging in such discussions with other men…. Well — nope.

The guy was up front and honest about this being JUST A HOOK-UP. Here’s a woman he hardly knew accepting that offer — and not only that: also offering to weather LA traffic, spending her hard-earned gas money to bring her body to him. Like an effing pizza.

So from the female perspective, please consider me a lost cause. :-)

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